Today is my son's 18th Birthday.
I was washing my car today when Zak came home and mentioned in passing that he bought a lottery ticket but didn't win anything. It struck me as odd that he would waste his money on that, but I was busy working so I let it go. I assumed he was hoping to scare up some money for college this fall.
Then I learned at our family celebration of his birthday that this was a rite of passage of sorts. It was his way of celebrating the fact that he is now officially an adult. He's a member of the club! And don't we usually ask our adult friends to join our club – our social networks?
Up until now, Zak and I have had no reason to co-mingle our online friends, and rightfully so. If you have teenage children you know what I'm talking about. Nevertheless, this gets me thinking about the inevitable, and how that will change the complexion of my social communities – and when its time, yours too.
A Social Media Society
It is very possible that social media will help our society in many new ways, if we are comfortable with loosening our rules for how they are used. One thing we can be sure of is social media visibility and connectivity will be much higher than it is today. So, this begs the question, what are we waiting for?
I have a feeling this idea is ripe with possibilities (and most of them are good!) I imagine it could do wonders for helping to raise the bar, by helping different groups within our society to have connections that previously did not exist, and to strengthen those that do.
And then there is that tiny community called a family.
Why is it that I have not heard much about how the social networks can be used to bring families closer together, especially extended families? I suspect one reason is not everyone is frequently using social media. Yet, just as with small businesses, that rate of use has only one place to go – and that is upward.
Imagine what our society will be like when ALL of us are together on the social networks? Will it be too crowded? Or will it bring us to a better place? We'll find out soon enough.
I would love to hear what you think about this..