Archives for November 2009

Here's What You Should Blog About

What should I blog about?

This is the most frequent inquiry I get from clients.  Do you know why this is such an interesting question?  Because you can blog about anything you please, notwithstanding a few guidelines that were recently laid down by the FTC.  New bloggers are like kids in the candy store with too much cash in their pockets.  They have no restraints, and this presents more choices than most of us are prepared to deal with in short order.

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When I was in middle school in the early '70's, what we called "junior high school" back then, there was a curious thing called an underground newspaper.  This was a self-published document of potentially radical thoughts or opinions, created by the students, that was naturally in direct contrast to the establishment – the doctrine of the school system.  Eventually a teacher would get her hands on a copy and then the excitement was over.  But for a brief period, the students all felt like they had a voice. And that was exhilarating.

There was a great deal of work involved in preparing an underground newspaper because we didn't have copy machines, or any other means of easily producing them.  These documents were typed on a traditional typewriter with layers of carbon paper to create multiple copies – with multiple meaning about 2 or 3.  Of course, if one was brave enough to sneak into the office and use the mimeograph, more copies could be generated, which naturally resulted in trouble for everyone until the culprit was discovered!  But that too just added to the excitement.

When you have to fight a little to have a voice, you cherish the opportunity and take full advantage of it.  What if you didn't have this voice that blogging gives you? What then would you be dying to share with your community of friends or customers?  What is your most precious and valuable message?  That's what you should be blogging about.

These days we have easy access to a storehouse of literary works that includes time honored quotes, borrowed stories, and a great deal of history.  But these aren't yours.  Is this what you would share if you had just a few opportunities, or would you hunker down and write something that really matters – to you and your audience.  That's what you should blog about.

Everyone wants to have a voice,and this desire only increases as one acquires more experience and wisdom.  When you get to this stage in your life and career, you only need to borrow from your own personal storehouse of information.  This is the kind of wisdom that can really make a difference in the lives of those who haven't yet crossed as many fields or stepped into as many rivers and oceans.  This is good stuff that needs to be shared.  It is your garden. You only need to nurture it until it is ready for consumption. 

And if you do this well, it will be devoured.

That is what you should blog about.

Photo Credit: Douglemoin

Engaging with Communities

Many of us in the United States will be reengaging with our regular business communities after nearly a week of visiting or hosting family for the Thanksgiving holiday.  This ritual will again be repeated for a number of upcoming holidays, depending upon your faith, upbringing and background, and if you travel to warmer climates during the winter season, your geographic location.

Transportation methods, flexible work schedules and discretionary income have all contributed to the formation of more communities that we easily move in and out of.  The social media networks are increasingly taking this to another level, as communities of all kinds are now represented both on an offline.

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How many different kinds of communities are there in your world?  More than you probably realize if you take the time to consider this.  These communities shape how you do everything in your life – how you work, how you enjoy your leisure, and how you make new friends.  So, this is my first challenge:  make a list of all of the communities that you engage with.  Think about work, play, education, clubs, activities, and associations and partnerships, and that list will quickly grow. 

Moving forward, you are going to become more aware of these communities and their value to your life and lifestyle.  You will start to measure that value.  Truth is you already do in some respects.  Why do many people join a health club when they can easily purchase the equipment to workout in their own home?  Why does anyone join a club?  As with most inquiries, the best answer is often that it depends.  Does it raise the quality of the experience?  If so, it  helps to answer the question:  "Why are you here?"

This past Thanksgiving week I engaged with dozens of communities that mostly involved family and friends.  This took me away from my usual business communities where I will be spending most of my time this week.  And I am looking forward to reengaging with those communities.  This variety is essential to leading a fulfilling life that grows and leads to new opportunities. However, it also makes me realize I need to start considering how I balance my participation, contribution, and engagement in every respective community.

It is interesting to notice how some communities overlap and others do not.  Most of my family members do not know a great deal about the type of work I do as a professional speaker.  They are mostly interested in how I am doing as a person – period.  Information in some communities seems to be transferred on a need to know basis?  This is just one aspect of how you can simplify your engagement with communities to maximize the value you receive and give to the other members.

How else can you  order your communities.  Please leave a comment below and share your ideas?  Here are some ideas that come to my mind that I am considering to balance out my online and offline community participation. 

Balance/Focus/Value

Boundaries/Rules/Exclusivity

Inclusiveness/Diversity

Trust/Acceptance/Friendship

Contribution/Participation/Integration

Education

Stability/Flexibility

Receptivity/Appreciation

Risk

Our time is valuable, and with the increased functionality of social media, it is possible to share nearly everything with everybody.  Anyone can do this, and it certainly encourages a great deal of discussion.  But will that discussion be as productive if  it were more ordered to encourage a desired result that is highly valued by the majority of the community? 

There is no wrong or right here.  You may believe there is no need at all to order your communities.  To that I will only suggest -  It all depends.

Photo Credit: Will Lion

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Viral Thanks-Giving: The Power of Social Media

One measure of the value of social media is how it helps our friends, and in turn helps their friends. During this Thanksgiving season it is easy to to be thankful for family, as we should.  We interact with our family members on a regular basis.  They know us  We see ourselves in them, and […]

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The New Playground – A Digital Conference Collaboration

This weekend I was very excited to wake up to a surprise in my inbox -  my advance copy of Google Wave.   I have to be honest, Google Wave doesn't make much of a first impression.  It is an uninspiring template that you have to learn to love.  Here is my suggestion on how to […]

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Writing My First Book: A Fortnight of Lessons

On this day I had promised all of you that I would have the first draft of my book completed, all 60,000 words.  While I have only 30,000 to my credit, I didn't actually get started writing until after the first week.  This became the most important lesson of this little endeavor.  It isn't that […]

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Every Great Performance Starts Back Stage

Entrepreneurs and small business owners understand that the product, the performance, the end-game – whatever you wish to call it, requires a well planned back-stage effort.  This is the one of the greatest challenges with social media marketing.  Before the audience or customer can enjoy the performance, which is the delivery of your product or […]

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Ten – A Big Day for Writing and Marketing

Over the last several months I have been coaching my son for his college entrance exams, packing up the "family truckster" to visit colleges, and generally learning a lot about the top business schools across the United States. If you have been through this process you can relate to my enthusiasm.  Like so many other […]

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Get the Shape – Book Project Day 9

Good research makes for a good book.  We all ought to know that, because good research gives you a foundation to build on.  Research should never stop, because the more you write, the more you will remember or discover ideas that you wish to incorporate into your finished product.  This is something to be careful […]

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Writing Project Day 8 – The Trend is Your Friend

When we were younger, many of us wanted to set the trend, now I'm just happy if I can recognize it.   I borrowed the expression "The Trend is Your Friend" from James Dines, the publisher of a financial newsletter known as the Dinesletter. It is one of, if not the oldest financial newsletter, dating back […]

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Day 7 of Jeff's Book Project – On Writing

When a golfer scores a birdie, it's a celebration, regardless of their level of skill.  If you are a golfer, you know that getting a birdie can really get you pumped up and lead to greater things on the remaining holes.  It can also lead to a loss of focus, and a horrible shot that […]

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