The Relationship Selling Mindset

Many years ago one of my best customers asked me an important question after we had concluded our business transaction.

What’s next?

He asked this question for a specific reason, and that was to help me understand how to better help him.

Every business should know what should be happening next in their business. This holds true for those involved with marketing, sales, customer service, or any other role, because these days all of them are interconnected.

Of course, given that revenue is the lifeblood of every company, it is vital that every salesperson knows at all times what should be happening next.

What’s Next?

When my client asked me what’s next I gave an honest response that revealed (like most salespeople) I had a transaction, as opposed to a relationship selling mindset. Here’s that conversation.

Client: What’s next?

Me: What do you mean what’s next, we’re done.

Client: You don’t get it do you?

Me: I guess I don’t. Help me understand.

Client: What’s next! Upgrade me. Make improvements. Take something out and replace it with something else that is new and better.

In so many words, my client was giving me permission to spend more of his money!

When you have a transaction mindset there is a tendency to think of your relationships with customers as a series of transactions, with gaps in between. This is understandable, because that’s how most traditional sales training programs are structured.

What’s happens after the sale? Traditionally, that is customer service. Following up to make sure the client is happy. However,

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A transactional mindset focuses on moving products and services. When this happens, it is difficult to distinguish one company from another. Why? Everyone is selling the same stuff.

The best solution naturally arises in in every selling situation when the business focuses on relationships. This may begin with sharing new information, but that in turn could lead to additional purchases.

This is precisely why I’m convinced content and social marketing is the new relationship selling.

Invest in the Relationship

Given that more than 50% of all relationships eventually fail, is it any wonder that traditional selling does not work?

How much healthier could your business be if relationships with its customers were stronger?

One of the smartest business building strategies is designing systems that give customers more of what they want. This will necessarily be different for every customer, but generally speaking it will be whatever makes them happier.

Customers are happy when they get what they want. The challenge is discovering what that is, which should be part of your process.

Help Customers Do More of What They Want to Do

The old school method of helping customers was to simply ask, “How can I help you.”

“Make me happier” may be the most honest response to that question. It could also lead to some interesting conversations, so feel free to give it a try.

It’s up to the business to have systems in place that demonstrate its capabilities for taking its customers to a better place in life. This is your business mission.

If you are serious about that mission, then you should always be thinking of ways for helping your customers. Naturally you want them to buy your products and services, but there are countless other ways to help them too.

This is the role of your content marketing. It’s the role of your relationship selling. If you have a valid strategy and a system for implementing it, you always know what’s next.

When I fast forward from that earlier conversation to the present, I know exactly what’s next. It is a derivative of one or a combination of these three direct influences of social media and our greater connectivity in general, that are shaping our business environment these days.

Business is Now Personal –  Leverage the power of the personal brands. Listen to customers. Understand what they want and help them get it.

Markets are Collaborative –  Stop selling and start collaborating with buyers. Bring your experience and expertise to the table, combine it with their desires, and see what you can co-create.

Communities are the New Markets –  We all live and work in communities. The more involved and helpful you are within yours, the better your business will understand what people want and how you can help them get it.

Want to grow your business?

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Relationship selling is the topic of this month, so come back for more insights.

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About the Author:  Jeff Korhan, MBA, is the author of Built-In Social: Essential Social Marketing Practices for Every Small Business – (Wiley 2013)  

He helps mainstream businesses adapt their traditional growth practices to a digital world. Connect with Jeff on LinkedInTwitterFacebook, and Google+.

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